Monday, again.
As a weekday comes, I get back to the reality.
Looking around my room, I realized one thing.
I need to start packing...
9/07/2008
家族との生活
This weekend, I'm back in my hometown for my family's event.
It has been 6 months that I stayed in my family's place last time. Since then, lots of things have been changed for my family, especially for me. The big change is that , of course, I got married.
Away from my family, I've gone through lots of things preparing for our wedding and new life with Shiro san in Tokyo, but I feel a little complicated for what we've done. It is because of a dilemma between modern life in Tokyo and rural traditions in my hometown. Although I've done things in our way, discussing with Shiro san and thinking about what we think it the best, I found my family felt uncomfortable for our way. I guess that they think I have done nothing what people should have done for wedding.
There are still lots of things about Japanese traditions that I don't know. But what I can tell is they see marriage as a more serious event than what I think, as an event to send a daughter out to another family.
Sadly enough, my dad never talked about me while my relatives are together in the event.
It has been 6 months that I stayed in my family's place last time. Since then, lots of things have been changed for my family, especially for me. The big change is that , of course, I got married.
Away from my family, I've gone through lots of things preparing for our wedding and new life with Shiro san in Tokyo, but I feel a little complicated for what we've done. It is because of a dilemma between modern life in Tokyo and rural traditions in my hometown. Although I've done things in our way, discussing with Shiro san and thinking about what we think it the best, I found my family felt uncomfortable for our way. I guess that they think I have done nothing what people should have done for wedding.
There are still lots of things about Japanese traditions that I don't know. But what I can tell is they see marriage as a more serious event than what I think, as an event to send a daughter out to another family.
Sadly enough, my dad never talked about me while my relatives are together in the event.
9/04/2008
ふたりで食事
After my work tonight, I had a dinner with my colleague in my office building.
Talking with her, I realized it was great thing to have a meal with somebody, and it would be wonderful to have one with Shiro san everyday after moving to our new place. It is just a meal, though.
I feel things are changing within myself. Clearly, now I'm thinking more about life with somebody than before.
Talking with her, I realized it was great thing to have a meal with somebody, and it would be wonderful to have one with Shiro san everyday after moving to our new place. It is just a meal, though.
I feel things are changing within myself. Clearly, now I'm thinking more about life with somebody than before.
9/03/2008
明日の俺に言っておきたいことがある
- 朝からインスタント焼きそばを食べるな
- ジュースもだめだ
- シャツはきれいめのものを
- パンツは保守的なやつを
そう、明日は健康診断。
今晩は酒も飲めないし、おやつも食べられない。はぁー。
しかしまぁ僕も、ちゃんとしてきた。昔は「もし病気が見つかったらどうするんだ!!」と言って、健康診断を積極的にさぼったものだ。最近では、見つかったらそれはそれで、普通に対処するしかないかなと。産業医あたりから、「彼には半年間、残業をさせないようにご指導願います」みたいなrecommendationがでれば、それはそれでありだしなーと思ったり。
9/02/2008
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